Insecurities don’t stop with a pretty face

Metaphorically loaded image of a peach that looks like a human butt
Metaphorically loaded image of a peach that looks like a human butt
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I am not a big fan of reality TV shows. I just can’t stand the artificial drama and fake (or scripted) interactions. So, naturally, I refused adamantly when my girlfriend tried to convince me to watch Too Hot To Handle. A couple of days ago I was too tired and content with simply lying on the couch to say anything when she turned on the first episode.

Little did I know the surprise I was in for.

The premise of the Netflix show is brilliantly simple. A bunch of attractive, young, and unsuspecting strangers from all over the world are…


Lowering your blood pressure in an extremely volatile market

Person sleeping in a bed
Person sleeping in a bed
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Investing in the current market can be stressful, to put it mildly.

I started building my investment portfolio with a simple ETF strategy like most people do these days. It’s easy to set up, relatively cheap, and if you understand the basics of how stocks and the market in general work, you won’t lose a lot of sleep over it. While it’s a sound way to invest (especially long-term), you can’t cherry-pick shares individually by the very nature of ETFs.

Slowly getting more comfortable with trading, I started researching companies I found interesting, building up a second portfolio of single…


How the simple act of talking to each other can make or break a project

Green speech bubble made of paper mache on a yellow background
Green speech bubble made of paper mache on a yellow background
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Every time I meet up with people I don’t know I dread the inevitable small talk that comes with building new relationships. Not because I hate it, but mostly because I feel like I’m really crap at it.

It’s different when it comes to my job. Communication feels less forced when you actually have a solid reason to talk to someone. It’s also incredibly important. Almost all projects where poop ended up hitting the fan had one thing in common: The team members didn’t talk…


And why do you need it?

Pipeline on a metal framework
Pipeline on a metal framework
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Working in the media, and especially the creative industry, new job titles are made up almost every week. It is getting harder and harder to describe what you do at your job as a Designer because the definitions shift with every new tool available.

Starting in print design, I soon entered the digital world and fell in love with UX almost - if not more - than Design. For me, User Experience Design is building the foundation and framework for a digital product whilst keeping open communication with all team members involved in the process.

UX Design is common sense…


Because nobody wants to work with a**holes

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Small yellow flower offered from two open hands
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The decision to become a full-time freelancer felt incredibly scary at the time, in part because apparently, it’s a shark tank full of people just trying to “get a piece of the cake” out there.

My fears were misplaced. It was the complete opposite for me starting my career and building my network. Most freelancers were the most relaxed and friendly people I ever met (spectacular exceptions excluded). They would be waiting for you to ask for help without expecting anything in return, simply enjoying the fact that they can. …


Trading in a soul-crushing work environment for a hectic but fulfilling career

Tired designer sitting in front of a laptop in a coworking space
Tired designer sitting in front of a laptop in a coworking space
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I remember sitting amid a huge audience at a design conference in southern Germany. I felt like I got hit by a truck at the time, having had the flu right before we took the flight down south. Even though I felt like crap and my mind was fuzzy, I decided not to stay at the hotel and attended the conference. After all, it was the first (and last) time the company I worked for paid for any kind of professional development. I wasn’t going to give them a reason to say no the next time.

The first two speakers…


When Peter Chan gave my pandemic-wrecked brain a break.

Image of a Bonsai tree on a table
Image of a Bonsai tree on a table
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Back when I was around 12 years old I discovered my neighbor's collection of Bonsai trees. He had around eight trees ranging from the age of up to 200 years and religiously pruned and watered them almost every day.

Looking at these miniature versions of ancient Oak or Elm trees, I was instantly hooked.

I joined him in meetings at his local Bonsai Club, where they celebrated stuff like repotting, pruning the roots, or rewiring the trees.

It was magical.

So I bought a small tree at our local supermarket, pruned…


What doing a face plant can teach you about values.

Close up of someone standing on a skateboard
Close up of someone standing on a skateboard
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When I was around fifteen years old I bought my very first skateboard. My parents hated it. Not because they were hardcore helicopter parents or condemned the scene around skateboarding, but because I broke both my arm and knee the year before. Not at the same time, just two broken bones for different, rather unspectacular reasons (playing catch and crashing my bicycle into a field because I apparently can’t ride a bike). My knee quite literally exploded, ending in me not being able to walk properly for almost a year…


Mending the Trust Gap in a Web 3.0

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This is not going to be a “ XX to the Mooon” post, don’t worry. But to explain where I am coming from I think I need to give you a bit of a back story.

In 2017, I did something I usually try to avoid like the plague.

I jumped onto the hype train and bought into this big new thing called, you guessed it, Cryptocurrency.

In hindsight, you could praise me for being an early adopter.

But honestly, I had no idea what I was doing and didn’t really up to a couple of weeks ago. All I…


How thinking outside the box can improve your career

Red swiss army knife
Red swiss army knife
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Back in the day, a Designer’s role was pretty narrowly defined. You got some kind of idea or maybe even a scribble from project management (because UX didn’t really exist yet), created your website in Photoshop or InDesign and sent it to the developer, hoping for the best.

I remember spending hours on end with drawing red lines and pixel values (the so-called dimensioning) into Photoshop files or JPGs to make sure that the content was set right. For one client we had over 220 pages of module documentation in the…

David Kippels

Freelance UI/UX Designer | Random thoughts on Design, Finance, and other things | www.davidkippels.de

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